signifier asks: Can you give me one piece of advice you think might help me?

This is less advice than reassurance, but it’s helped each of the times without number that sdn has said it to me: It will take as long as it takes.

As for advice, there’s no way that you don’t know about this already, but consult the oblique strategies, and reload as necessary.

3 Responses to “Answer #3”

  1. signifier Says:

    I actually have the Oblique Strategies widget on my OS X dashboard! Thank you.

  2. pameladean Says:

    I’d never seen the oblique strategies before. They could become addictive, like a Magic 8-Ball or an endless supply of stale fortune cookies, so that one doesn’t feel guilty about cracking ten of them open just to see what they say.

    I really liked the peas in the lap, for some reason.

    Thanks!

    P.

  3. dirtylibrarian Says:

    It will take as long as it takes.

    I think this is good dating advice too.

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