This past weekend, the vast majority of posts showing up on my various social media feedsÂ were from or about AWP.Â Now I’m starting to see a flurry from comics comrades about ECCC, and from library pals about PLA.
When many of your colleagues and friends are at Professionally Useful Gatherings (let’s call them PUGs) and you’re not, it’s easy to feel like you’re Seriously Missing Out.
Even theÂ complaints about PUGsÂ can seem enviable. Your PUG-attending pals have bags under their eyes from being outÂ so late! They’ve lost their voices from talking toÂ so many people! They’ve wrenched their backsÂ from carryingÂ all the amazing books & swag!
When you’re wishing you were where all the Cool Kids (of whatever variety is appropriate for your endeavors) seem to be, here are three things you can do besides endlessly scrolling and feeling sorry for yourself:
1. Look up information about next year’s event. Could you propose one or more sessions? How much would travel & lodging cost? Have you got friends in the area you could stay with? Are exhibitor booths/tables available and can you afford one? If you’ll be selling your work, how much would you need to make to break even? If you think it would truly benefit your career and/or morale to participate in the event, start planning how you can get there in the future.
2. Make plans with a local friend. If it’s nice out, you can go for a walk.
3. Do the work.Â Whatever the thing is that the PUG you’re coveting is about, get off the Internet and do that thing; it’ll get your mind off wishing you were somewhere you’re not, and you’ll have more experience by the time the next PUG comes around.